Blurring the line between parental gender roles
I find myself stifled by our perceptions of what constitutes gender-based roles of parenting. As a man, I am to be the macho breadwinner and inspire a multitude of characteristics that are supposedly male-oriented. Characteristics such as being physical, functional, sexual, emotionless, intellectual, and a leader are supposed to inspire a child to stand up and be a risk-taker and so forth.
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How parenthood redefines sacrifice
I never realized child rearing would include waking up several times a night. The reasons include everything from potty requests, making sure she is covered properly on cool nights or just general concerns for her welfare during the night. The job description did not include early-morning attempts of nutritional gourmet lunches and dinners – nor did it include sharing honey or agave-nectared, old-fashioned oatmeal to give my child a great start for the day.
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